The Prophet's withdrawal from his wives

اعتزال النبي أزواجه

c. 629 CE · c. 9 AH

Medina

The Prophet withdrew from his wives to an upper chamber for a month in the incident known as the ila'. Umar climbed to find him on a mat with nothing between it and his skin, a leather pillow stuffed with palm-fibre under his head; the mat had marked his side, and when Umar wept comparing him to the emperors he answered 'are you not content that they have this world and we have the next?' 1; Ibn Abbas reports Umar naming Aisha and Hafsa as the two wives 2.

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Era
The Prophetic Era
Region
Arabia
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620630640 c.
The Prophetic Era · The Rashidun Caliphate

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Medina

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Overview

The Prophet withdrew from his wives into a chamber of his for a month, in what is known as the incident of the oath of abstinence, in Medina. The reports differ on the reason for the withdrawal and its length: a month, or twenty-nine nights. 1

Umar's account

Umar relates that he climbed to the chamber and found the Prophet ﷺ on a mat with nothing between them, and under his head a leather cushion stuffed with palm fibre. At his feet was a heap of tanned leaves and at his head hung some skins. He saw the mark of the mat on his side and wept, and said that Khosrow and Caesar are in what they are in while you are the Messenger of God. The Prophet said: "Are you not content that they have this world and we have the Hereafter?" 1

Ibn Abbas's account

Ibn Abbas relates that he wished to ask Umar about the two women who had conspired against the Prophet, and Umar answered him before he had finished his question: Aisha and Hafsa. 2

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Occurred at
Medina
Had participant
Muhammad· Umar ibn al-Khattab· Aisha bint Abi Bakr· Hafsa bint Umar
Based on
Bukhari 4913 — the upper chamber

People and things also explored

Muhammad· The Hijra· Umar ibn al-Khattab· Medina· The death of the Prophet· Abu Bakr leads the prayers during the final illness· The Battle of Uhud· The Prophet's request for a writing in his last illness

Sources

  1. Sahih al-Bukhari , 4913
  2. Sahih al-Bukhari , 4914
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