The Prophet's grief over Ja'far and his instruction to feed his family

حزن النبي على جعفر وأمره بإطعام أهله

c. 629 CE · c. Jumada I 8 AH

Medina

When Ja'far was killed the Prophet ﷺ visited Asma' bint Umays, asked for Ja'far's children, smelled them and wept. He told her they had been struck down that day, and instructed the community not to neglect Ja'far's household and to send them food. Aisha reported that grief was visible on the Prophet's face when the news of Ja'far arrived.

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Era
The Prophetic Era
Region
Arabia
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620630640 c.
The Prophetic Era · The Rashidun Caliphate

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Medina

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Overview

When Ja'far was struck, the Prophet came to the house of Asma bint Umays and asked for Ja'far's children. When he saw them he sniffed them, and his eyes shed tears. 1

He told Asma that Ja'far and his companions had been struck that day. He ordered the people not to neglect feeding the family of Ja'far. 1

Aisha related that grief appeared on the Prophet's face when the news of Ja'far's death came. 1

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Had participant
Asma' bint Umays· Muhammad
Part of
The Battle of Mu'tah
Occurred at
Medina

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The expedition of Usama ibn Zayd· The dosing of the Prophet during his illness· Dispatch of the Mu'tah army· Return of the Mu'tah army to Medina and the Prophet's reception· Abu Bakr leads the prayers during the final illness· Abu Sufyan's mission to Medina· al-Jadd ibn Qays asks leave to stay behind· The plot of Amir ibn al-Tufayl and Arbad ibn Qays

Sources

  1. al-Sira al-Nabawiyya — Ibn Hisham, al-Saqqa edition (1355/1936)
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islam.museum contributors. “The Prophet's grief over Ja'far and his instruction to feed his family”. islam.museum, https://islam.museum/en/event/mutah-prophets-grief-and-condolence/. CC BY-SA 4.0. Last updated 2026-10-16.

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The expedition of Usama ibn Zayd

In Safar 11 AH the Prophet equipped a great army under the young Usama ibn Zayd to strike the Byzantine marches of al-Balqa' and al-Darum in Palestine — answering the empire's killing of Muslim converts; the troops camped at al-Jurf until the Prophet's illness delayed them, and the campaign was carried out under Abu Bakr.