Mahr (bridal gift)

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Mahr, the bridal gift, is for al-Sha'rawi a right of the wife and the wage for intimacy in marriage. He reads the word nihla in the Qur'anic verse as a matter of religious conscience rather than a judicial ruling, and warns a guardian against taking any of it out of shame 12.

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Family, marriage and kinship

Overview

The mahr is the woman's sadaq — what the husband gives his wife by the marriage contract; the Shafi'is define it as what becomes due by marriage, intercourse, or the deliberate loss of the marital right. It has nine names: mahr, sadaq, sadaqa, nihla, farida, ajr, 'ala'iq, 'uqr and haba'. 3

Mahr and nafaqa

They share being due to the wife, but maintenance is due as compensation for her being kept, while the mahr is due in honour of the union. 3

Its obligation

The mahr is obligatory in every marriage — "lawful to you beyond that is that you seek with your wealth" ties the licit union to giving wealth; and no marriage in the abode of Islam is free of mahr. 3 4

Opinions on the question

The question: Is the mahr the wife's right or a gift from her, and what follows if she waives part of it?

First opinion · Sunni tradition (the museum's frame)Main reference

The mahr is the wife's right and the wage for intimacy; waiving part of it willingly is permitted

Sha'rawi holds that the mahr is a right and a wage for intimacy owed to the wife, that the word nihla denotes a religious obligation of conscience, and that a wife's willing waiver strengthens the marriage. A guardian must not take any of it out of shame {cite:tafsir-sharawi-khawatir-scan-vol-2 p. 2009}{cite:tafsir-sharawi-khawatir-scan-vol-2 p. 2010}.

Held by: Muhammad Mutawalli al-Sha'rawi

More opinions (1)

Academic viewSecondary opinion

The comparative fiqh rulings on the mahr are not yet set out

This part of the book does not set out comparative fiqh rulings on the mahr; a named source is needed (needs_source).

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Based on
Qur'an 4:4

People and things also explored

Taj Mahal· Abawan (the two parents)· Justice among co-wives· Obstructing a marriage (adl): the guardian and the husband· Fleshy growth in the wife's womb and the right to annul (afal)· Ahl al-Nasab (the kin by descent, and who counts as kin in bequests and endowments)· Akdariyya (a named inheritance case)· Brother (full, paternal and maternal) in law

Sources

  1. Sha'rawi's Khawatir around the Holy Quran, volume one (scan copy) , p. 2009
  2. Sha'rawi's Khawatir around the Holy Quran, volume one (scan copy) , p. 2010
  3. al-Mawsu'a al-Fiqhiyya al-Kuwaitiyya, Noor-Book copy (file named v3) , p.15120
  4. al-Mawsu'a al-Fiqhiyya al-Kuwaitiyya, Noor-Book copy (file named v3) , p.14849
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