Rifq (gentleness): its ruling, God's gentleness to His servants, gentleness to parents, neighbours, followers, servants and animals

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Rifq in the lexicon is gentleness, softness in the act and firmness in the purpose; it is the opposite of harshness. 1 2 In general it is recommended, but it is obligatory with parents and forbidden with fighting unbelievers. 2 God has laid on His servants only what they can bear and has granted them concessions, and the believer is told to take from the supererogatory what he can keep up. 2 3 Kindness to parents and neighbours is commanded; the imam should shorten the prayer for the weak; in crowded rites one should not push others; and in changing wrong one should be gentle with the ignorant. 3 4 The Prophet urged kindness to servants, feeding them from one's own food, and forbade torturing animals and shooting at living creatures for a target; the owner must feed the animal and may not overload it. 4 5 6 7

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Rifq in the lexicon is gentleness, softness in the act and firmness in the purpose; it is the opposite of harshness. 1 2 In general it is recommended, but it is obligatory with parents and forbidden with fighting unbelievers. 2 God has laid on His servants only what they can bear and has granted them concessions, and the believer is told to take from the supererogatory what he can keep up. 2 3 Kindness to parents and neighbours is commanded; the imam should shorten the prayer for the weak; in crowded rites one should not push others; and in changing wrong one should be gentle with the ignorant. 3 4 The Prophet urged kindness to servants, feeding them from one's own food, and forbade torturing animals and shooting at living creatures for a target; the owner must feed the animal and may not overload it. 4 5 6 7

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Openness as against secrecy in acts of worship, charity and public notice (alaniya)· Deliberate act (amd), as against error, and its rulings· Wounding an animal that cannot be taken (aqr) and its effect on lawfulness and liability· Honey: its medicinal use and zakat (asal)· Resolve and its legal effect (azm)· Shahwa (desire: its effect on touch and ablution, on fasting and pilgrimage, on looking, on marriage by touch and on the breaking of the marriage bond)· Shakk (doubt in law: its kinds, the rule that certainty is not removed by doubt, and its effect on worship, contracts, penalties and evidence)· Halq (shaving and cutting hair)

Sources

  1. al-Mawsu'a al-Fiqhiyya al-Kuwaitiyya, Noor-Book copy (file named v3) , p.8815
  2. al-Mawsu'a al-Fiqhiyya al-Kuwaitiyya, Noor-Book copy (file named v3) , p.8816
  3. al-Mawsu'a al-Fiqhiyya al-Kuwaitiyya, Noor-Book copy (file named v3) , p.8817
  4. al-Mawsu'a al-Fiqhiyya al-Kuwaitiyya, Noor-Book copy (file named v3) , p.8818
  5. al-Mawsu'a al-Fiqhiyya al-Kuwaitiyya, Noor-Book copy (file named v3) , p.8819
  6. al-Mawsu'a al-Fiqhiyya al-Kuwaitiyya, Noor-Book copy (file named v3) , p.8820
  7. al-Mawsu'a al-Fiqhiyya al-Kuwaitiyya, Noor-Book copy (file named v3) , p.8821
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